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Approaching women can be 1 of the hardest things to do. As men, once we’re out in the playing field we get what has been known as approach anxiety just when we see a women we would like to meet. This happens to be physiological response that will often tell your mind “you do not want to do this” This sense will cripple you if you do not understand how to defeat it.
Did approach anxiety ever attack you? This even occurs to top pick up artists.

You spot a women you want to meet. You begin to take your first step her direction and right away you begin analyzing the ways in which it can go wrong as well as the ways you may be rejected. This creates that churning feeling in the pit of your stomach that makes you physically know you’re vulnerable. Instead of welcoming the fear you decide to salvage your pride and not talk to her. To top it off, you reback rationalize your decision saying to yourself “I’ll approach next time” or “she probably has a boyfriend.”

When debating over approaching you’re accessing the rational, neo cortical area of the brain that ignites an emotional response. You have to learn to shut off the rational area of your brain only for a brief second. The brief second should buy you some time to put your feet moving in the direction of the woman without weighing the consequences.

The method in which this happens to be done is by following the 3 second rule, created by these pick up artists, that says that you must go up to the women you want to meet within in the first 3 seconds of seeing her. By doing this, you’re “living in the now” and getting past your rational thinking process. Further, allowing you to move without debating until you’re already chatting with the girl.